Facing Children with Fighting habits

Juni 18th, 2011 Posted in Habit, Kids

children habbitIt is a natural phase in a period of psychological growth of children who helped on the stability and realized that he was a person who is independent of adults. With the passage of time, he will realize that the stubborn and fight not the right way, while the social habits of giving and receiving is the right path, especially if both parents intercourse them with flexible, gentle and understanding.

Their causes:

Mimic the actions of his parents.
Get children obey and fanatics to something.
There is no strong bond of understanding between children and both parents.
Excess spoil and give all he wants.

Response:

Both parents should explain to her benefit as she was told to him and make him satisfied with that description.
Be flexible, give and take with calm, loving and gentle with him.
Encouraging the child and then explain and explain that they loved it.
Balanced in educating children, not too loud nor too spoiled.
Always try to attract children’s attention every time you tell him.
Using language understandable by children with delays are enough to be understood by him.
Avoid giving the many commands in one time.
Avoid giving the orders to him at a certain moment and then promptly banned it after a while.
Give a gift and reward for obedience.
Avoid physical punishment or threats as a means to rectify his mistake.
Notice each execution command.

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